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  • High Conflict People in Legal Disputes

    by Bill Eddy ...
    People with high conflict personalities (HCPs) clog our courts as plaintiffs with inappropriate claims against their personal "targets of blame," and as defendants who have harmed others and need to be stopped. Everybody knows someone with a High Conflict Personality. "How can he be so unreasonable?" "Why does she keep fighting? Can't she see how destructive she is?" "Can you believe they're going ... Read more

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  • 5 Types of People Who Can Ruin Your Life

    Identifying and Dealing with Narcissists, Sociopaths, and Other High-Conflict Personalities

    by Bill Eddy ...
    Some difficult people aren’t just hard to deal with—they’re dangerous.Do you know someone whose moods swing wildly? Do they act unreasonably suspicious or antagonistic? Do they blame others for their own problems?When a high-conflict person has one of five common personality disorders—borderline, narcissistic, paranoid, antisocial, or histrionic—they can lash out in risky extremes of emotion and ... Read more

    $12.99 CAD

  • BIFF for CoParent Communication

    Your Guide to Difficult Texts, Emails, and Social Media Posts

    In divorce and co-parenting, not only do parents need to deal with their own emotions, they may be faced with a daily barrage of hostile calls, texts, social media blasts, and/or emails. How can you regain a sense of control and peace for your own sake and for the kids? For more than a decade, the BIFF method of responding to hostile and misinforming conversation has been used by thousands of ... Read more

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  • Biff

    Quick Responses to High-Conflict People, Their Personal Attacks, Hostile Em

    We live in an age of rapid change and instant communication. We also live in a Culture of Blame and Disrespect… Has anyone ever told you: “It’s all YOUR fault!” “You should be ashamed of yourself!” “You’re a disgrace to your _________________!” [family][community][country][team][profession][party][you fill in the blank] “What’s the matter with you? Are you crazy? Stupid? Immoral? Unethical? Evil?” ... Read more

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  • Why We Elect Narcissists and Sociopaths—And How We Can Stop!

    by Bill Eddy ...
    The bestselling author and therapist describes how electing high-conflict personalities—from Hitler and Mao to Putin and Trump—threatens democracy.Democracy is under siege. The reason isn't politics but personalities: too many countries have come under the sway of high-conflict people (HCPs) who have become politicians. Most of these high-conflict politicians have traits of narcissistic ... Read more

    $17.59 CAD or Free with Kobo Plus

  • So, What's Your Proposal?

    SWYP: Turn Conflicts Into Agreements in 3 Steps

    by Bill Eddy ...
    Conflicts escalate quickly—but agreement is possible when you know what to say next. This book introduces the So, What's Your Proposal (SWYP) technique, a simple three-step communication method designed to shift emotionally charged conversations into productive problem-solving in as little as 30 seconds. Used by professionals and everyday individuals alike, SWYP offers a practical approach to ... Read more

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  • Our New World of Adult Bullies

    How to Spot Them — How to Stop Them

    by Bill Eddy ...
    Our New World of Adult Bullies connects the dots to show how bullies at all levels of society follow the same predictable patterns of behavior.Bullies exist everywhere: families, workplaces, neighborhoods and communities, politics and government, and organizations of all types and sizes. And in a media landscape where conflict, crisis, chaos, and fear reign supreme, every day we see the worst ... Read more

    $17.99 CAD

  • Calming Upset People with EAR

    How Statements Showing Empathy, Attention and Respect Can Quickly Defuse a

    by Bill Eddy ...
    The level of stress and conflict in today's world is higher than seen in decades. We all can use tools for managing the emotions this has caused. At the same time, there also appear to be more "high conflict" people who are preoccupied with blaming others and verbally venting or attacking those around them. Yet, these upset emotions and conflicts can often be calmed immediately through the use of ... Read more

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  • Don't Alienate the Kids

    Raising Resilient Children While Avoiding High Conflict Divorce

    by Bill Eddy ...
    In this tenth anniversary edition of Don't Alienate the Kids! attorney, mediator, and therapist Bill Eddy shows readers how to protect children from the harm of alienation and high-conflict divorce, boosting their resilience by teaching them to think flexibly, manage their emotions, and moderate their behaviors.We all know breakups can get ugly. But sometimes they can get downright vicious, with ... Read more

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  • Dating Radar

    Why Your Brain Says Yes To "The One" Who Will Make Your Life Hell

    Why do so many of us commit to the wrong person – sometimes more than once? While most believe that attraction and compatibility are the keys to relationship success, in reality these are red flags in 15-20% of the population. When it comes to love, the brain is irrational and short-sighted. We make decisions based on incomplete information, biased understanding, and strong emotion. Love truly is ... Read more

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  • Trump Bubbles

    The Dramatic Rise and Fall of High-Conflict Politicians

    by Bill Eddy ...
    Trump Bubbles: The Dramatic Rise and Fall of High-Conflict Politicians is the first book to really explain the rise and fall of Donald Trump, candidate for President of the United States of America. What’s a trump bubble? It’s when emotions trump thinking in politics. When fear trumps facts. When leader love trumps logic. Donald Trump is the most recent trump bubble, but trump bubbles have ... Read more

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  • BIFF at Work

    Your Guide to Difficult Workplace Communication

    Hostile emails, letters and conversations can drain inordinate amounts of time, emotional energy and expense in the workplace. For over a dozen years, the BIFF method of communicating has helped thousands of people calm conflicts and create clear communication in response to misinformation, blame, and unnecessary anger in writing or in-person. This new book focuses exclusively on workplace ... Read more

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